Friday, July 22, 2016

My Mountains Were Waiting, I Got On My Way

"Ti inamorirai ancora di piu dell’Italia quando vedrai le Dolomiti"



I was warned, it’s true, that going to the Dolomites would surely make me fall in love with Italy even more. Perhaps it’s because I adore being in the mountains and admiring nature in this beautiful world, or perhaps because it was one more region, with a completely different set of characteristics, that I had yet to discover. Whatever the reason, it definitely happened on this trip to Scena – Merano, in the Trentino Alto Adige region.

This area is not one of the first few stops for Americans visiting Italy, perhaps because Italians have worked hard to keep it a secret, or maybe because it’s difficult to get there. Some say that if it was easy -- everyone would do it. Then of course there’s the surprise that even though you’re still in Italy, German is the primary language this far north. So this time I was no longer the mysterious non-Italian who speaks the language well, but I was the non-German-speaking straniera whose speaking Italian – even though in Italy – required finding someone who could at least converse in italiano.

This trip was exactly what I was hoping for, and helped me to remember a few things that I believe are essential in living a thriving life. First, to keep a bit of spontaneity in your life, to go on an adventure without knowing precisely where you’re going or how to get there, and to trust that you’ll end up exactly where you were meant to be. Second, which is also one of the pillars that Ariana Huffington discusses in “Thrive,” to live with a sense of wonder, to take the time to appreciate the beauty of the world around. Third, to listen to yourself and take care of yourself, and to take time to just do “you.”

You have to do a bit of trekking in the Dolomites. Whether you love the challenge of the climb, or you need a bit of exercise after the gelato and pasta, or you love walking in the mountains. Before I headed out to hike, I looked up some trails and maps, picked one that looked like it went high and ended with a funicular ride, and headed out hoping I would get there. No maps and no internet accompanied by a generally good sense of direction and a strong sense of adventure were my tools. Partway through, I had no idea if I was still heading in the right direction, but I ended up on the trail I had hoped to take, huffed and puffed my way up, and could not have been happier with the destination. It was surreal, and a pleasant reminder of why I want to always pursue adventure, even if I don’t know where the difficult or winding road may lead.


As long as I remember I have loved nature. The mountains though… I am completely enchanted by the mountains. You can have the greatest workout making your way to the tops, see millions of types of plants blossoming around each corner, have viewpoints that only get more and more spectacular every bit higher you go, and then you feel that wonderful sense of accomplishment when you reach the top and have the prize of the view and the air. If you’re really lucky, you get to spend some time in the clouds too. Then to sit at the summit, or in this case to look around the little (6 buildings specifically) alpine village of Taser and wonder what life would be like there. To look out and see the other mountain tops and realize how small we are and how big and amazing this round world really is.

A lot of my reasoning to come here was to take care of myself. I knew I needed some R&R, some time to do some soul searching, and some time to listen to my own thoughts without a million others – responsibilities, people, or news – running through my brain. Plus, this area is known for its spas, and I knew that a day at the Terme di Merano would be my way to relax. Saunas, pools, Jacuzzis, the snow room (only acceptable after a steam bath), bikram yoga, not knowing nor caring about the time, and soul detoxing were among the enjoyable amenities. That and the time alone on these few days, to think about and write my lists of what I’m searching for, noting what’s still important or what changes I want to make. That’s one of my favorite parts about the slowness in Italy – take the time you need, observe the good, cry for the sad - but eventually keep going. Though I didn’t meditate - per say - on this trip, my mind feels so clear, and I feel refreshed.

Safe to say that Italy has placed one more hook in me now, and I’ve fallen even harder for this paese spetacolare. I’ll be back to the Dolomites, absolutely. I’ll strive to live with a sense of adventure, wonder, and well-being, in the time that passes before I’m lucky enough to return to the beauty dei Dolomiti. Un posto dove l’orario si ferma, l’avventura c’è sul ogni montagne e dove si puo ascoltare alla natura e a te stesso.

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